Club class dating
This type of artificial "contact" contradicts the process of meaningful interpersonal interactions (to be explained), which generates love and attraction.
To explain the problem, I need to first elucidate the ingredients for love and the meaningful interactions.
All categories are just the maps or substitutes of social reality, not the reality itself.
When people use categories to predict an interaction (but not pay attention to the other's real communications, they will produce two outcomes: a), avoiding love from right individuals, and, b) approaching the wrong person(s).
There are gender differences in both preference and messaging behavior on online dating sites.
Women weigh income more than physical characteristics, and men sought physical attractiveness and offered status-related information more than women.3.
On the other hand, the right mind is more important factor.
Why have some individuals who have encountered good opportunities of meeting their ideal mates lost the chances to develop the desired relationships?
The problems with online dating It is clear that online dating has at least two problems.This is because the online dating/matching (as provided by the commercial websites) lacks the basic ingredients for developing real love.The most evident problem involves its use of several categories (plus a few photos) for the daters to predict and decide the effectiveness and success of their further interactions with one another.First, it is an opposite of face-to -face interaction.Second, it does not help heal the emotional pains of some online daters.
It is an artificial type because both rejection and acceptance by the daters are not about the rejection and acceptance of real persons, but of the imagined or perceived attributes of their categories. New computer technology has greatly expanded people's potential and freedom to communicate with one another, some of which may generate love and romantic relationships, but online dating/matching, at least in its current format, has restricted the freedom. "It is clear that online dating has at least two problems.